Still Searching

I attended the Pair Camp at the University of Washington in 2002. I had only been rowing about a year and a half and my coach suggested that I attend to get some more experience. It was the last camp that Jan Harville coached (how incredibly lucky was I?) and I can still hear...

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Thinking Twice

Before you make a decision you might regret. Think twice. Usually our first instinct is muddled by emotion, which can sometimes cause us to behave less than our best. Thinking twice gives us space to consider how we really feel. To weigh pros and cons. And to make a decision that we can feel...

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Some Things I Love

Lemon Cream Yogurt Lou dancing Julian’s smile Kady’s laughter Good beer Really good red wine Walking Daydreaming Growing zucchini Picking apples Baking Swimming Listening to podcasts Reading Hugs Scones Butter Heavy cream New clothes Changing someone’s life Passionate discussions All the coffee The morning from 5-8 am Sunrises Sunsets Sleeping in Thinking of my...

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When The Noise Stops

We live in a noisy world. People talking too loudly. Open offices. Traffic. Music. Sirens. Television. Social media. So much noise. We spend our time trying to block it out so we can focus. But then when we do have a quiet moment we can’t think. It’s feels too empty. Maybe we need the...

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A Rant About Rowing Grip

I have coached a lot of rowers. Anyone from high schoolers to collegiate athletes to octogenarians. Typically, older rowers really struggle with grip and controlling the oars. Whether it’s muscular tension or just plain fear this is the single biggest prohibitive factor I observe in their rowing. New rowers struggle with grip as well,...

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Return

Eventually we have to return. To reality. To work. To dreams and goals and progress. To the Earth as ashes. There is always a returning to at some point. It’s important to leave sometimes. To learn. To gain clarity. To raise babies. To separate ourselves from the routine and realize what matters and what...

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Labor

Labor never ends. Even after you’ve given birth. Even after you’ve cleared the lawn of weeds and laid down mulch. Even after you’ve met a deadline. Even after you’re kids are grown up and now you’ve got an empty nest. The work of parenting, earning, supporting, learning, growing, discovering never ends. The labor of...

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