If you want to understand who a leader is pay attention to the decisions they make, especially under pressure. I just finished reading the incredible book “Story” by Robert McKee and have pulled a few quotes that I thought summarized this sentiment really well. This book was immensely helpful in understanding that decisions drive...
Continue readingFantastical Nonsense
Heroes are not dark knights or high flying spidermen. They are the ones without a cape or fancy steel suit who show up everyday to make the world a better place. ...
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When It Comes To Control Less Is More
In 2003, when I was training in Augusta, GA, the team went out for a row and launched heading upriver. It was windy and choppy – two things that made my already crappy rowing even crappier. As my teammates rowed, the lengths between us increased and increased and so did my anxiety. I quickly...
Continue readingDo I Need To Insult Your Parents?
“What do I have to do to get a rise out of you Shumway? Insult your parents?” That’s what my high school basketball coach yelled at me during practice my senior year. I was playing like crap, kept making mistakes, until finally he took me out of first string and put my teammate in....
Continue readingBe Like Frost, Make The Bold Choice
Robert Frost wrote one of the most quoted poems of all time. He urged the reader to make the bold choice. “Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.” What a crock of you know what. In today’s world, who...
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Don’t Like This Post
I want you to do the hard thing. But I don’t think you’re capable. But just in case you’re paying attention I’ll tell you what I want you to do anyway: don’t like this post (1). If you even read this, which you probably won’t (because the average reader spends about a minute and...
Continue readingThe Fallacy Of Before And After
We love transformation stories. An overweight recluse who now has ripped abs and confidence. A homeowner who buys a condemned house and restores it to its 1940s glory. An author who only had ten followers and is now on the bestseller list. We put two pictures side by side and say “See? What a...
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If Its Not Ready, Let It Bake Longer
You’d never take a loaf of bread out of the oven halfway through baking it. You’d end up with a doughy blob you can’t eat. You’ve got to let it bake longer. It takes patience, diligence, and self-awareness. Ok, we’re not talking about bread here. We’re talking about your ideas. Sometimes you have a...
Continue readingConfidence Is Easy
When things are good confidence is easy. It’s when nothing feels right that our resilience is tested. We have to dig deeper. A baby who goes to sleep easy teaches us nothing about how to be a parent. A baby that refuses to sleep and fusses no matter what we do forces us to...
Continue readingWhen Your Ideas Get Stolen, And They Will Get Stolen
Reposted from LinkedIn: Seth Godin 🌔 was right when he said people are going to steal your ideas. I work hard to share my ideas with you. And if I’m doing my job well people will share them and build off of them. They might even blatantly copy them. But at the end of...
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